Just because you fit does not mean you belong.
You can meet the expectations.
You can check every box.
You can play the role.
And still feel out of place.
Fitting in is about adapting.
Belonging is about alignment.
Here’s the difference ↓
→ Fitting in asks you to shrink parts of yourself
→ Belonging lets you show up fully
→ Fitting in requires constant effort
→ Belonging feels steady, not forced
→ Fitting in focuses on approval
→ Belonging comes from shared values
If you constantly feel drained, cautious, or muted:
Pay attention.
That discomfort is information.
You do not need to force yourself into spaces
that were never designed for who you are.
The right environment does not just accept you.
It supports you.
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source : Jen Blandos
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